„People with the best advice have gone through alot“
But do we always need advice from another source? I thought you shouldn‘t dictate someone else‘s life since one should find their own path
BUT there are people out there who need this advice!! they need to learn how to live „the right way“
like don‘t be insecure, have more confidence!
don‘t go overboard though and play hard to get, since „good things never come easy“
but if you do play hard to get, they may not be interested anymore, you should be more straight forward, stay true to yourself and others and tell them how you feel
or be who you want to be!! be an example to others and pick your role models, wisely
well, being lonely is fine too
plus we all die, alone
nono, let‘s be positive, enjoy life! savor every moment, carpe diem!!
live life to the fullest, have motivation, aspiration, inspiration
stay fit and work out. no pain, no gain! push yourself,
„just do it“
heyhey take it slow, life should be enjoyed bit by bit
think about yourself and others, consider how they feel,
but don‘t think about it too much, don‘t overanalyze, it‘s not what you think it is. don‘t follow your intuition and emotions. they lead you the wrong way anyways
you‘re a human being, we want comfort and perfection.
however you should still push yourself out of the comfort zone, plus... everyone‘s imperfectly imperfect?
have the ambition to be the best you can be
and treat yourself once in a while
by going shopping or having a treat
happiness can‘t be bought, but you can spend money on „things that make you happy“
i heard, that material things can‘t make you happy
but what is a person? aren‘t we all parasites of the world; that‘s a thing
don‘t we get bored of people and break up with them or ignore them when we‘re annoyed?
yet don‘t obejctify people either, we‘re all here for a reason
what if we don‘t need a reason to be here though?
why can‘t we go with the flow?
everything happens for a reason
and it‘s important to let go
let go of the past, forgive, don’t blame yourself or others, „be happy“, and focus on the present
if we don‘t blame, no one gets better and does better in life
and if we don‘t dwell on the past we can‘t „remember how far we‘ve come; everything we‘ve faced; all the battles we‘ve won; and the fears we‘ve overcome“
and we shouldn‘t regret something that once made us happy
we shouldn‘t let our sadness tear us down
„keep calm and move on“ and all of those other keep calm‘s and do something‘s
you know, what doesn‘t kill you makes you stronger
but hey, it‘s okay to be sad, it‘s part of life. life is a bitch, they say, life is bitter.
we just have to deal with it
however through pain, strength we regain
through these hard times we become a better person
you can show the people who hurt you the better person you‘ve become
oh but first, forget them, they‘re not on your level, they‘re not as good as you are, you can do better, you‘re special, they wouldn‘t make you happy in the future anyways ... if it‘s love we‘re talking about
then why did they make us so happy now? we „compromised“ on things and it still made us happy.
we should hold onto someone that makes
us happy and whom we love
no, if you love someone, let them go
don‘t make excuses for someone that doesn‘t make you truly happy
they did make us happy, plus, partners fight all the time.
„that’s a healthy relationship.“
and living with the other’s issues is true acceptance.
our love will save it. they couldnt‘ve forgotten all the good times we had.
did they really love me in the first place... if they can let me go that fast...?
hey now, let life be an experiment. try new things, talk to different people, be adventurous, you‘ll gain experience and maybe, when you focus on it the least, you‘ll find your soulmate.
unconditionally love. even if they‘re bad people. tolerate. accept. love.
one should love unconditionally or else, unfortunate things like killings happen. those are people who feel left out, unloved..
yet keep a distance from people that are toxic. they drag you down
we’ve heard of the quote „do what makes you happy“. and we do stuff that makes us happy. therefore we are happy right?
wrong. you need to keep pushing it until you reach your goals and achieve true happiness.
what do we do when we‘ve reached them?
„you should set goals beyond your reach so you always have something to live for“
it‘s the journey that matters.
dream it. believe.
why set goals in the first place if we can never reach them and be happy... we believed in ourselves that we‘d achieve them
dream big. your true talent and potential will be revealed if you set high goals.
let life, the universe or if it’s a god you believe in, give you the answers though.
„focus on your goal. don‘t look in any other direction.“
there are so many different directions one can go in life. relationships, family, hobbies, etc.
„don‘t say it‘s impossible. the word „impossible“ itself has the words „i‘m possible“ in it.
and i should try new things right? that gives me more options and more directions
having one thing to focus on is narrow minded.
that’s why: be open minded.
as we said before, don‘t let people make you feel uncomfortable or unhappy. do things that make you happy.
my question is, are we ever acting and reacting from our true self? without this superficial redundancy?